Moving house can feel quite exciting. There are so many options, like choosing an area, narrowing down your list of requirements for your new home, and then putting together a shortlist of properties.
In the midst of our excitement, it is important to remember others in our family might not share our feelings. Children frequently experience anxiety and can feel overwhelmed when faced with big life events like moving home. To avoid this, it’s crucial to include them, as much as you are able to.
We have helped find hundreds of families their dream homes over the years, and we’ve learned a few things about how to help your children feel as excited about moving as you are.
Take the time to explain to your children why you are moving. For example, are you relocating for a larger garden, more space, or because you want to live in a more convenient location?
Everyone is nervous about things they do not know about or understand. Don’t forget to listen to their worries and opinions as well as outlining the advantages of moving to them.
Give your children a chance to choose the furniture or paint colour for their new room. This will help them feel like they have some say in what is happening, which will make it feel less frightening and out of their control
It’s better to go to first viewings without your children, but we understand that this is not always possible and they are always welcome. However, the reason for recommending this is because you might determine a property is wholly inappropriate for you, while your child might think otherwise and be unhappy when you disagree.
Another benefit of leaving your children at home is you won’t have to worry about them touching everything, or have them attempting to talk to you while you try to concentrate on the viewing. All of us have been there!
If you opt to involve your children in the decision-making process by taking them on a second viewing after determining that the property is a possibility for your family, there is less chance that you will disappoint them if you decide against the home they have their hearts set on.
Finally, on the day of the move, be sure to pack their most prized possessions into a bag that they can hold onto. The day will be much less stressful for them if they aren’t worrying about losing their favourite cuddly toy, and they’ll feel secure knowing that even though the rest of the house is packed up, they can still snuggle and play with the things that make them feel safe.
We are always delighted to help your children feel involved in the process of finding their new home. If you would like us to help find the perfect property for your whole family in the Hampstead, Little Venice, Marylebone, Primrose Hill areas please just give us a call on 020 7759 2199 or send an email to enquiries@vitaproperties.uk.
